A 5 step recipe for suck-cess!

Everything you need to know about giving him the blowjob he has always dreamed of.

It’s almost time for a man’s favourite day again – Steak and Blowjob day.

Celebrated on March 14, Steak and blowjob day is a holiday for men, and the idea is very simple. No cards, chocolates or presents. You simply bestow your partner with steak and a blowjob (although not necessarily in that order)

For some of you, this won’t be your first rodeo, and you may just be wanting to know how to make the day extra special, for the newbies out there, don’t stress.  Our 5-step guide will have you covered from the basics to taking things to the next level. With everything you’ll learn, this Steak and Blowjob day will surely blow his mind.

Step 1. Setting the mood.

Don’t worry, you don’t have to pull out your highest heels or the candles and rose petals to set the mood, but if you go into the experience feeling confident, the whole experience will be hotter. Put on your favourite outfit or your best lingerie, and get yourself ready while listening to a little background music that gets you going.

 You may not be the only one that needs to prepare for the experience. Every man is different, and not all like the surprise of getting straight to it. If your man doesn’t like the element of surprise, there are a number of ways you can get prepared and in the mood together.  You could begin by taking a steamy shower together, or begin kissing his lips and erogenous zones like his neck or ears, you can then slowly work your way down his body until you reach the penis. If you’re not sure what your partner likes, you can simply ask him! Communication doesn’t have to be boring. In fact communication is one of the best ways to ensure great sex of any kind. You can add a sense of seduction and temptation while you talk it out, by getting down on your knees while you ask him his preferences in a sexy way.

You could tell him how badly you want him, and ask how he wants it. Now remember, just because he has suggested something, that doesn’t mean you have to do anything you’re not comfortable with.

Step 2. Start off slowly.

When you’re watching porn, you will often see the couple getting down and dirty immediately. He begins fully erect and the blowjob giver starts sucking hard and deep straight away. In reality, even though your man may seem hard from the idea of oral, he may not be fully erect. Start off slow and soft, and tease him to get the blood moving into his genitals. Kiss and lick his penis up and down, lightly tap the penis with your fingers or even graze your fingers over the shaft to really get the blood pumping before you begin sucking with more force.

Step 3. The wetter the better.

When giving head, the saying ‘the wetter the better’ holds true. There’s no such thing as too much spit when it comes to great head. Saliva can act as a natural lubricant, and this will help avoid painful friction while performing the act. Don’t be afraid of spitting directly on the penis before, and during fellatio. If you find that you struggle to produce enough saliva, there are many products on the market that are designed specifically for this purpose. From flavoured lubes and oral lubes to dry mouth sprays. That will help you produce more saliva while tasting incredible. You should never have to worry about friction taking the pleasure away from oral sex ever again.

Step 4. You don’t need to suck the whole time.

You’ve been sucking for a while and you’re starting to get jaw ache? Worry not – You don’t need to suck the entire time! The head of the penis is full of nerves, making it incredibly sensitive. Swirl your tongue around the head, ‘flick’ the head of their penis from the inside of your cheek, or use your hand on the shaft as you lick the head to change up the sensation and give your jaw a rest without the stress of ruining the mood.

The penis isn’t the only area you can focus on! You can also stimulate the testicles and perineum for added pleasure – But remember that the testicles are a very sensitive area, if you put too much pressure on their testicles or pull them too far down, it can be extremely painful so be careful! There are a number of ways you can stimulate the testicles, you could lick, or lightly suck on them whilst using your hand on their shaft, or you can gently cup them as you use your mouth of the head or shaft of the penis. To stimulate the perineum (the area between the testicles and anus) you can gently rub, tap or apply pressure to it. The perineum is a highly erogenous zone that feels incredible when stimulated, and makes for a perfect addition to a standard blowjob. If your partner is open to the idea, you could also incorporate stimulation of the prostate while you are blowing them. The prostate can be stimulated using a prostate stimulator or even your fingers.  When combined with oral sex, this can be enough to create a mind blowing orgasm. There are many styles of prostate stimulators from butt plugs, prostate massagers to anal beads and other anal-focus sex toys.

Step 5. The climax.

It goes without saying that there’s a very clear beginning, middle and end to a blowjob. The beginning, you’re working on setting the mood and getting the blood pumping, the middle you can to let loose and focus on enjoying the experience together to get to the point orgasm, and then you have the finale – what you do at the point of climax, and throughout the entire orgasm.

Your partner will usually be vocal on when they’re reaching the point of climax, and let you know that they are getting close. Use this as a cue to up the ante and blow his mind.

I’ve found that the biggest secret to ensure an incredibly intense orgasm, is to emulate how your partner masturbates. Pay attention to your partners strokes as he masturbates or while you’re having sex. As he begins to reach to point of climax, does he speed up, or keep a steady pace? Does he focus on his entire penis, or focus on the head?

If you’re unsure of how your partner usually behaves at the point of climax, an all-rounder would be to put pressure on the base of the penis, keep a strong steady pace, and put extra suction on the head of the penis.

If you really want to blow him away, keep the stimulation going throughout the orgasm. Do not stop right as he ejaculates. Although this can be tricky to judge as there’s a short window between ejaculation and post-orgasm hypersensitivity, which can cause too much stimulation – your partner will typically give you a cue of when to stop, but if they don’t, simply wait for the moment they finish ejaculating and then stop.

To take the stress out of the steak, we’ve rounded up our favourite steak recipe to save you the leg work (we’ve even included a vegan alternative, if his meat is the only meat you want to get your hands on).

How to cook the perfect steak every time

The best tasting vegan steak

Happy blowing!

Angels of Tamworth